Issues Are Your Mind's Way Of Trying To Protect You
Some Perceived Harm That Happened In The Past.
Even though issues cause all sorts of trouble in your life, they were originally intended to protect you from harm. It's important to understand that the decision to form an issue happened in a mere fraction of a second. It was based on a combination of your reaction to the "event", and your perceived capability at the time. To make issues even more complex, the "event" that lead to the formation of the issues could have been anything from an off-handed comment, to a traumatic experience.
Where issues get even more difficult, they also have defenses that are designed to keep you away from whatever the issue is "protecting you from". It is these defenses that actually make issues the problem they are in our lives. This is because those defenses have direct control over us and the way we think; while also requiring us to expend vast amounts resources in order to maintain them. It is for that reason we feel a weight being lifted when we do manage to actually deal with an issue - we are literally freeing ourselves from the weight of having them in our lives.
Unfortunately, issues also have a tendency to become bigger, and thus more defended, each and every time they get "triggered". Something that can happen merely by thinking about whatever the issue is trying to hide. However, even if you ignore issues and leave them alone, they still continue to dictate and control your life; while also continuing to take the ever diminishing resources from your life. So how can you possibly hope to win when it comes to dealing with issues?
The key element you must remember is that your issues are trying to protect you from something you didn't think you could deal with. If you can show yourself that you are NOW able to deal with that situation, then the issues will begin to lessen their grip on your life. If you can work enough to prove to yourself that you can now handle anything and everything that life sends your way, then your issues will disappear.
The key to actually making this happen in reality is that you have to do things the right way. If things are not done properly you can actually make the issues grow and become bigger, instead of working to rid your life of them. It is with that in mind that we took the opportunity to provide a complete guide on how to deal with your issues. It is provided entirely for free at http://www.freefromissues.com/guides/issues/index.html
If you're ready to free yourself from the issues controlling your life, check out the guide today!